Finding a Dive Buddy

Finding a dive buddy can be challenging, especially if none of your family or friends dive. When I started, I walked into a dive shop alone on a random Friday after work (in the winter, no less) and signed up for a class. If you’re in the same boat, I understand the struggle.

Over time, I’ve explored different ways to connect with other divers. Some methods work well, while others have mixed results. Below are the best ways to find a reliable dive buddy and expand your network.

Best Ways to Find a Dive Buddy

1. Join Local Shop Dives

This is, hands down, the best way to meet potential dive buddies. Sign up for local fun dives, even if they cost a little extra—it’s worth it. Get on every shop’s email list.

If you are in Chicagoland checkout the curated list of Chicagoland Dive Shops

Tip: If you see a diver standing off to the side looking nervous, say hi and offer to buddy with them. It takes guts to “just show up” alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. A simple “Hey, need a buddy?” can make someone’s day.

2. Check Out Facebook Groups

Facebook groups are hit or miss. They’re great for networking, but unreliable for actually scheduling dives.

If you are in Chicagoland checkout the curated Chicagoland Community Engagement options.

3. Just Show Up

Yes, it works... but it's awkward. If you’re not the type to introduce yourself to strangers, this might not be for you. That said, I’ve shown up at a populer dive site on a random Saturday and managed to tag along with pre-existing buddy groups. Success rate? 100%. Comfort level? Awkward.

4. Try the Dive With Buddy App

This has potential, but it’s not widely adopted yet. The main issue? It needs an automatic dive log sync feature. Right now, manually logging dives is a pain. I’m over there if you want to check it out. You can find it here: Dive With Buddy App.

5. Use ScubaBoard... Cautiously

While registering is fine, be careful when posting—some members are great, others are, well... not. And remember: don’t argue with jerks on the internet. They’ll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

That said, I’ve found ScubaBoard useful for researching dive trips. Just take most advice with a grain of salt—only about 10% of what 90% of the people say on ScubaBoard is worth trusting.

6. Join a Dive Club

Many dive shops and independent groups have local dive clubs that organize regular dives, training events, and social meetups. These clubs are a great way to meet like-minded divers and build long-term buddy relationships.

If you are in Chicagoland checkout the curated Chicagoland Community Engagement options.

7. Take a Continuing Education Class

Enrolling in courses like Advanced Open Water, Rescue Diver, or specialty courses (Nitrox, Drysuit, Deep Diving) is a great way to meet other divers who are serious about improving their skills. Training alongside someone often builds a natural dive partnership.